PEOPLE PLEASING IS NOT NOBLE

Trying to find your happiness in pleasing others is not logically correct. You might be always trying to please others and might not even realize it. Pleasing others can be really exhausting. You try to do everything that might please them, even though it might not bring any pleasure to you. And for the fact, other might not even notice or appreciate your actions towards them. And by end of day, you will end up finding yourself exhausted and lonely. Research have found that people who try to please others and make others happy, put others before their needs are the loneliest people from inside. Seeking for permission from others for any action or activity is not fair. You do not need anyones permission to be happy. It's time you put yourself first. You can do so by taking baby steps, it will take time and patience.

• Make your own decisions.

• Other people should not be a factorial in making decisions.

• Break the co-dependency on others. It will take time and patience.

• People pleasing come out of fear. Live life out of intent, and not fear.

• Believe in yourself, make your decisions, please your own self.

"People pleasing is hurting, pleasing yourself is self love"